{"id":2087,"date":"2021-12-23T13:37:49","date_gmt":"2021-12-23T13:37:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/123traumahulp.nl\/?page_id=81"},"modified":"2024-07-02T21:03:30","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T21:03:30","slug":"processing-trauma-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/trauma-verwerken-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Processing trauma the Oriental way"},"content":{"rendered":"

During the process of trauma processing, there are often expectations which may be different due to the Eastern approach to trauma processing. An old trauma from an accident also often hides underneath a physical illness. There is a variety of trauma symptoms<\/a>. Processing trauma in the Eastern way proceeds in solitude.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Expectations in terms of support in your process<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

No mental handles though towards heartbreak<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

No arsenal of mental tools to better deal with trigger situation(s). From psychology, you are given mental tools to better handle and manage painful situations. You are then still not 100% liberated. In soul-focused blueprint therapy, you don't get these. Instead, we want to disempower mental thinking. Heartbreak is the fuel of our mental thinking. During psychosis, mental thinking works overtime. It is then overloaded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No endless conversations; but energetic treatments<\/strong> for processing trauma<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

No endless conversations to get the mental saboteurs<\/a> giving space and attention. Talking will not stop an inner conflict. The old heartbreak needs to be energetically loosened first. The root and branch eradication of heartbreak is the main thing. If you don't do that, you keep attracting the same painful situations.<\/p>\n\n\n

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trauma processing like a butterfly in a cocoon you are first trapped for a long time to develop powerful wings<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

No quick fix; but a root-and-branch approach<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

No quick (workaround) solution to become less upset by old traumatic experiences, while trigger situations continue to present themselves. This is the characteristic difference between Energetic Therapy<\/a> and EMDR Therapy<\/a>. We take the root and branch approach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No comfort in grief a lonely processing; Well distance treatment when you are struggling<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

No extensive telephone contact between treatments to offer comforting support for pain. This is a Western custom however in the Eastern approach precisely not the intention. The more on yourself the deeper \"your\" processing. It means going through intense emotions including fears and anger from old heartbreak in a very short time - all by yourself. Discharge just takes its time. It is better to be completely on your own and, moreover, not share experiences with partners, friends and girlfriends and certainly not with fellow sufferers during this process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No sharing experiences with third parties during intense process; However, after completion by writing a recommendation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Your best friends or girlfriends are similar to you in that they have often gone through the same thing while you may not yet be aware of it. Common heartbreak in your magnetic energy fields once attracted each other. Stay with yourself as soon as emotions erupt. Their stored fears may manifest through your process and increase your anxiety. Mental thinking may then start sabotaging the deeper heartbreak. You then stop therapy prematurely. With all its consequences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No medium test; but commitment to your care question or pathology<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

During the intake session, you will not receive an aura reading with an immediate diagnosis of the problem. Mediumship testing is not interesting. Only when it is used for healing does it serve a clear purpose. Otherwise, a client will always have new questions that he or she wants answers to. And most of the time, a client only wants confirmation of what he or she unconsciously already knows. Learning to 100% trust your own feelings is more important than getting confirmation from a medium. During the intake interview and consultations, it's about connecting with each other to support you in your transformation. Not about a test on your part or a need for proof on my part. Processing trauma and mediumship can be useful together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No past lives; but do contemplate and embrace all the pain in this life<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Every human being has 8 personalities in each life in the earth chakra. Illnesses arise at this level as soon as the self-esteem pain of the fire level is too intense (feeling bored) and the shift to the water level (fleeing from this reality) does not help enough. Therefore, the cause of an illness always refers back to self-esteem. In Life Coaching, Burn-out Coaching and Relationship Coaching, looking at the father-mother-child relationship is very central.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you go back to 1 past life as a therapist, you have a 1 in 64 chance of matching the right personality to the problem right now. At 2 lifetimes back a chance of 1 in 512. At 3 lifetimes back a chance of 1 in 4,096. And furthermore, at 4 lives back a chance of 1 in 32,768. At 5 lives back a chance of 1 in 262,144 and at 6 lives back a chance of 1 in 2,097,152.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This statistical probability calculation shows that going to past lives by a therapist is very dangerous territory. Moreover, all the pain from past lives has already unfolded in this life of the client. There is no need for it at all. It can even be an escape just like the water level (drinking, drugs, smoking, sex, gambling, eating a lot and taking long-term antidepressants & antipsychotics) to escape the pain in this life. So for myself, previous lives of clients is a NO GO. With coaching, it's about helping awaken the mental mind and despite the saboteurs to the pain in this life.<\/strong> This is the basis for processing trauma in an Eastern way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do not identify with challenges; they are not always your own<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

What plays even more strongly in trauma is the heartbreak of parents and grandparents which you can also inherit. And the beliefs developed as a result. This goes back seven generations. So you don't live your own life but your life unfolds based on the actions of the seven generations before you. The law of cause and effect or karma plays an important role. This effect does have your full attention. Using mediumship for this does make sense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

My 6 roles during your transformation process<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The 6 roles though I can fill are very typical. Together with a therapist<\/strong> you look into the past for causes for the current situation you are in. With a medium, you can see heartache from the pregnancy phase of 9 months or less and the first seven years of life. Ninety per cent of clients have hardly any memory of this. This while the impact on life is very great. Navigating the lives of fathers and mothers and grandfathers and grandmothers is also important, as this too has great impact on the unfolding and in the \"now\" or present of your life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

With a life coach<\/a><\/strong> together you make a plan in 4 sub-areas for your life in the future. A trainer<\/strong> transfers knowledge to accelerate the transformation process of becoming aware. A complementary doctor<\/strong> helps you improve health holistically. A healing medium<\/strong> works on your energy fields through energetic therapy. The balancing process takes place more quickly through the use of Sacred Geometry<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trauma treatment process requires a tough attitude<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It is sometimes said that it is only suitable for Spiritual Warriors. After you first go through a relatively minor trauma and have that experience, it all becomes much lighter. Afterwards, you feel more space and relief. Embrace it coping with trauma<\/strong>!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

During the process of trauma processing, there are often expectations which may be different due to the Eastern approach to trauma processing. An old trauma of an accident also often hides underneath a physical illness. There is a variety of trauma symptoms. Processing trauma the Eastern way proceeds in solitude. Expectations in terms of support in your process ... Read more<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-2087","page","type-page","status-publish"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2087","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2087"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2087\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2142,"href":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2087\/revisions\/2142"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2087"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}