{"id":44,"date":"2021-12-23T09:04:39","date_gmt":"2021-12-23T09:04:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/123traumahulp.nl\/?page_id=44"},"modified":"2024-07-02T20:42:19","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T20:42:19","slug":"trauma","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/trauma\/","title":{"rendered":"Trauma is fraught now time for discharge"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-een-trauma-wat-is-dat\"><strong>A trauma what is that?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What exactly is trauma? What types of trauma are there? It's a big impression, it's too overwhelming. Psychologists and psychiatrists call it a psychotrauma because it is said to have to do with your brain. According to them, the brain gets overloaded. In my opinion, you once gave a place to an old childhood or childhood experience and now is the time to process it. \"The feeling at the old trauma, inherited or otherwise, releases in your heart\". In other words your soul - the blueprint - is finally releasing the unprocessed energy. It is time for personal growth. Then there is usually a crisis first. Your mental thinking goes haywire in the process. And colours the present extremely strongly with the unpleasant event from the past.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"249\" height=\"421\" src=\"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/traumaverwerking-met-levensbloem-en-toth.gif\" alt=\"trauma processing with life flower and Toth\" class=\"wp-image-2079\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">trauma processing with life flower and Toth<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-hoe-beleef-je-een-traumatische-ervaring\"><strong>How do you live through a traumatic experience?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Traumatic experiences at that time can extremely affect daily life. Psychological complaints arise from this intense experience. The old feelings and moods that are released - by your soul - influence your behaviour at that moment in a \"negative sense\". In fact, it is not negative. The symptoms are a signal for great spiritual growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-identificeer-het-trauma-achter-de-symptomen\"><strong>Identify the trauma behind the symptoms<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many traumatic experiences can be listed. List some examples below:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>death of a loved one.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>sexual abuse.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>relationship severed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>witness serious crime.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>extremely dominant parent.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>teacher who slapped.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Accusation of what you did not do.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>death of twin half during pregnancy.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>illness of a parent.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">An experience may have occurred in your childhood. Also during early childhood. An additionally during pregnancy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>As the traumatic event happened at a younger age, the impact on the emotional life and on the release process in the NOW is the most intense. Your aura was more subtle at the time so when releasing the soul trauma in the present, everything also feels more intense.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-de-oosterse-aanpak-van-traumaverwerking-is-anders\"><strong>Eastern approach to trauma processing is different<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We like to skim the expectations of Western people. Processing Eastern trauma is more on your own with no support. Nor an arm around you for a deeper <a href=\"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/en\/trauma-processing\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"trauma processing (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" class=\"ek-link\">trauma processing<\/a> obtain. So there is no help between consultations. You are thrown back on yourself while you can be incredibly tired. This can last for a few hours or several days. Think of being depressed, extremely bored with no purpose can wander around, obsessions and addictions which temporarily intensify. Or you may not feel like people around you for a few days. Moreover, you may be extremely angry with parents, grandparents or colleagues which is obviously a projection. For processing emotional charge or heartbreak all very positive symptoms of the intended process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-na-trauma-behandeling-wegblijven-bij-goede-vrienden-of-vriendinnen\"><strong>Staying away from close friends or girlfriends after trauma treatment<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seeking support for your sadness, vitality or lesser mood is pointless. Not even with close friends or girlfriends this often has the opposite effect on the intended process. Once you attracted each other through the magnetic effect of shared heartbreak. So it may well be that the traumatic experience for which you are in trauma processing therapy involves shared emotional pain. Sharing your experiences with peers brings out a huge amount of additional fear in others. This can further fuel your fears. This interaction can lead to the activation of a mental saboteur. This can cause your best friend and you to go back to sweeping grief under the carpet. You then stop therapy. Moreover, you make up a mental reason inspired by the saboteur that tries to keep you away from unity consciousness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This situation sketch describes a psychological process of subconscious and incompetent action. The Eastern approach often goes deeper. This one tries to avoid attracting new situations resembling the old traumatic experience altogether. The Western EMDR approach only tries to remove a top of the emotional charge. This makes it easier to deal with future unpleasant situations. This is a redirection of the problem. In fact, you haven't finished <strong><em>As long as you are in the Eastern way of processing trauma therapy, avoid meeting peers.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"737\" height=\"472\" src=\"http:\/\/123traumahulp.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/traumatische-ervaring-in-onderbewuste.png\" alt=\"traumatic experience in subconscious\" class=\"wp-image-42\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/traumatische-ervaring-in-onderbewuste.png 737w, https:\/\/jyotishatat.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/traumatische-ervaring-in-onderbewuste-300x192.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 737px) 100vw, 737px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">traumatic experience in subconscious<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-complementaire-aanpak-en-oorsprong-trauma-symptomen\"><strong>Complementary approach and origin of trauma symptoms<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People are resilient and can recover from such a shocking, traumatic experience. It takes time. In a regular approach or treatment, you develop skills that try to give you more control. Mental thinking runs on the fuel of the traumatic experience or conditioning far too fast. The abundance of fear energy tries to channel mental thinking by being overactive. <em>My preference is to ignore mental thinking altogether. An attempt to get more control over it with handholds I don't believe in.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The complementary approach aims to speed up the period of discharge. Everything then comes out in a very short time. It is then best to let go of control completely for a few days and not talk to anyone. <em>Instead, there should be total surrender in this process.<\/em> <em>The charge is stored in the heart centre not the brain<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The difference also lies in the fact that I believe the energy of the traumatic experience is stored in the heart centre and not in the brain. Only in the case of inherited trauma is it important to teach the client, among other things : This panic attack is from my mother. I now experience harmony, love and trust in my own energy balance.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A trauma what is it? What exactly is trauma? What types of trauma are there? It's a big impression, it's too overwhelming. Psychologists and psychiatrists call it a psychotrauma because it is said to have to do with your brain. According to them, the brain gets overloaded. 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