During the process of trauma processing, there are often expectations which are different due to the Eastern approach to processing trauma.
An old trauma from an accident also often hides beneath a physical illness. There is a variety of trauma symptoms. Processing trauma in the Eastern way takes place in solitude and the intense confrontation with yourself.
Expectations in terms of support in your process
No endless conversations; but energetic treatments
No endless conversations to give mental saboteurs space and attention. Talking will not stop an inner conflict. The old heartbreak needs to be energetically dislodged first. The root and branch eradication of heartbreak is paramount here. If you don't, you will continue to attract the same painful situations.
No mental handles though towards heartbreak
No arsenal of mental tools to better deal with trigger situation(s). From psychology, you are given mental tools to better handle and manage painful situations. You are then still not 100% liberated. In soul-focused blueprint therapy, you don't get these. Instead, we want to disempower mental thinking. Heartbreak is the fuel of our mental thinking. During psychosis, mental thinking works overtime. It is then overloaded.
No quick fix; but a root-and-branch approach
No quick (workaround) solution to become less upset by old traumatic experiences, while trigger situations continue to present themselves. This is the characteristic difference between Energetic Therapy and EMDR Therapy. We take the root and branch approach.
No comfort though lonely processing and distance treatment if you are struggling
No extensive telephone contact between treatments to offer comforting support for pain. This is a Western custom however in the Eastern approach precisely not the intention. The more on yourself the deeper "your" processing. It means going through intense emotions including fears and anger from old heartbreak in a very short time - all by yourself. Discharge just takes its time. It is better to be completely on your own and, moreover, not share experiences with partners, friends and girlfriends and certainly not with fellow sufferers during this process.
No medium test; but commitment to your care question or pathology
During the intake session, you will not receive an aura reading with an immediate diagnosis of the problem. Mediumship testing is not interesting. Only when it is used for healing does it serve a clear purpose. Otherwise, a client will always have new questions that he or she wants answers to. And most of the time, a client only wants confirmation of what he or she unconsciously already knows. Learning to 100% trust your own feelings is more important than getting confirmation from a medium. During the intake interview and consultations, it's about connecting with each other to support you in your transformation. Not about a test on your part or a need for proof on my part.
No past lives; but do contemplate and embrace all the pain in this life
Every human being has 8 personalities in each life in the earth chakra. Illnesses arise at this level as soon as the self-esteem pain of the fire level is too intense (feeling bored) and the shift to the water level (fleeing from this reality) does not help enough. Therefore, the cause of an illness always refers back to self-esteem. In Life Coaching, Burn-out Coaching and Relationship Coaching, looking at the father-mother-child relationship is very central.
Once you go back to 1 past life as a therapist, you have a 1 in 64 chance of matching the right personality to the problem right now. At 2 lifetimes back a chance of 1 in 512. At 3 lifetimes back a chance of 1 in 4,096. And at 4 lives back a chance of 1 in 32,768. At 5 lives back a chance of 1 in 262,144 and at 6 lives back a chance of 1 in 2,097,152.
This statistical probability calculation shows that going to past lives by a therapist is very dangerous territory. Moreover, all the pain from past lives has already unfolded in this life of the client. There is no need for it at all. It can even be an escape just like the water level (drinking, drugs, smoking, sex, gambling, eating a lot and taking long-term antidepressants & antipsychotics) to escape the pain in this life. So for myself, previous lives of clients is a NO GO. With coaching, it's about helping awaken the mental mind and despite the saboteurs to the pain in this life.
What plays even more strongly in trauma is the heartbreak of parents and grandparents which you can also inherit. And the beliefs developed as a result. This goes back seven generations. So you don't live your own life but your life unfolds based on the actions of the seven generations before you. The law of cause and effect or karma plays an important role. This effect does have your full attention. Using mediumship for this does make sense.
No sharing experiences with third parties during intense process
Your best friends or girlfriends are similar to you in that they have often gone through the same thing while you may not yet be aware of it. Common heartbreak in your magnetic energy fields once attracted each other. Stay with yourself as soon as emotions erupt. Their stored fears may manifest through your process and increase your anxiety. Mental thinking may then start sabotaging the deeper heartbreak. You then stop therapy prematurely. With all its consequences.
Summary
You come more and more to your real self the higher self with this Eastern approach