Traumatic experience in early childhood and possible consequences
Your traumatic experiences work their way into your life. They have a great influence on the unfolding of your life. Like a magnet, they attract life events that keep pointing you to grief. The root and branch eradication approach to trauma treatment looks at the life pattern with all those life events and tries to identify the synthesis and first event in that sequence. Often, clients come with a physical complaint or a completely different request for help and are not aware that there is a trauma underlying it. They did not recognise the trauma symptoms. We opt for an Eastern way of processing trauma.
To give an idea of the cause-and-effect principle, it is useful to list some examples. This list does not pretend to be correct in all common situations.
It's about understanding the principle. A emotional charge from the past is like a magnet that constantly attracts life events until a person is ready to want to face this charge. So the outer world is a reflection of the inner self.
Dissolving the emotional charge closes a gap in the aura. This retains more energy and expands a person's heart. One becomes more loving but much more importantly also emotionally much more stable. So this approach is diametrically opposed to EMDR therapy which initiates a partial discharge and further realises a redirection in the brain to deal with events differently. Which, incidentally, you continue to attract through the magnetic effect of grief. In this sense, it is a form of symptom control. For us, not the root and branch approach to processing experiences deeply at the soul level.
Traumatic experiences processed?
You react much less allergically. Moreover, you can maintain much more distance. You are also no longer hit and knocked off balance by third parties. Comments from others don't keep singing around you for days. I still should have said this. Also, I should have said this more. Moreover, I was not ad rem. In other words, no more short-circuiting your emotional charge because it has been dissolved. The traumatic experiences you have had through the process of Eastern trauma processing left behind once and for good. You may also have to laugh and cry and shake before you arrive at total processing.
Overview of possible traumas and consequences unfold life
| Trauma | Consequence for a Woman | Consequence for a Man |
| mother dies at young age | trouble passing on love. | delusion that women don't love you or abandon you |
| father dies at young age | delusion that men don't love you or fear that men will leave you. | high proof drive and wanting to do everything without the help of men |
| father has a girlfriend and family stays together | woman attracts married men because her father had a wife and a girlfriend and she loves her father and mother. | If own wife cheats, husband does not want to face it |
| tension of parents getting divorced where parents are temporarily not together for days or are very angry | a relationship with the same tension and jealousy towards partner. | a relationship with the same tension and jealousy towards partner |
| father was always working and did not like me | Evidence drive in work/business to demonstrate independence. | urge to prove independence in work/company |
| parents divorce at a young age | divorce is imminent or has already occurred and or fear that men are also leaving in your life as children usually stay with mother | divorce is imminent or has already taken place and communication is just as bad as with your parents at the time |
Processing your traumatic experience in practice or online or via remote treatment
Traumatic experiences can be discussed 100% online in Dutch and in English and processed with remote treatments. So worldwide. And face2face for an intake interview and optionally for follow-up sessions, my practice is easily accessible in the following surrounding towns from the Heemstede region. Including Bennebroek, Haarlem, Hoofddorp, Zwaanshoek, Vogelenzang, Overveen, Bentveld, Zandvoort, Vijfhuizen, Bloemendaal, Santpoort-zuid, Santpoort-noord, Hillegom, Lisse, Sassenheim, Aerdenhout, Driehuis, Velsen-Zuid, Velserbroek, IJmuiden, Amsterdam, Zwanenburg, Halfweg and Badhoevedorp. Hope to see you soon in my practice for the processing and treatment of your traumatic experience.