Inner struggle in a client is an internal ego struggle. The mental mind is hyper active in the form of saboteurs to precisely not want to go to the old pain. The old pain has created the ego or, in other words, an allergic reaction to situations or people. Or a distance or duality away from the oneness of the soul. Life keeps unfolding for you with events or tiring patterns that keep pointing you to the old pain. This awareness or insight to see connections between the problems of the present and the old events or life patterns is what I help clients with. This does require three preconditions otherwise I am pulling a dead horse. It then takes a lot of energy and the chances of a successful growth spurt are then also small.
Three preconditions which give up inner struggles
The inner mental Giving up struggle and commitment to the treatment or coaching plan go hand in hand.
Are you stuck in "Yes But Mode" then the moment is not there yet and I cannot help you further at this moment. You remain stuck in an inner conflict and that takes too much energy for me to break through it permanently. Your soul-sickness and crisis is not yet big or deep enough to allow a certain degree of surrender.
Don't want to embrace old pain, because you don't want to go back to the past then I can't help you further either. This remains a continuous theme, because as soon as your consciousness becomes higher - by closing energy leaks and purifying with sacred geometry - your old pain is experienced more intensely. So this grounding cannot be missing. Before deciding this, read more about the consequences of a trauma on your life.
Keep blaming others and there is no degree of self-reflection present then I cannot help you either. This basic attitude makes working with you too stressful and complicated for me. Insufficient progress will also be made. If there is insufficient progress, I know who to blame and a scheduled consultation will be cancelled just like that with an excuse.
Summing up inner struggle lifting : From my responsibility, I want to avoid "throwing pearls before swine". Once you really want to grow in terms of consciousness and compassion, I am happy to disclose to you those pearls that have come to me during a 30-year long search - along the best teachers in the world.
So 3 key words: 1 Surrender 2 To old pain and ignore mental saboteurs 3 Self-reflection. With this, you can once and for all overcome the inner struggle give up.